Archive for the 'Offspring' Category

(Step)daddy’s home

Friday, March 5th, 2010

I love it when Baby Girl and Mini-Me get to spend time with TechBoo.  I get tired just watching them.  So much energy and joy.
Thanks, as always, to El Ex for making this possible.  Because he acts like a grown up and doesn’t disparage TechBoo (or me, for that matter) to our girls, the girls [...]

A little savory, a little sweet

Saturday, February 13th, 2010

Spending some one-on-one time today and tomorrow with Mini-Me, starting wtih breakfast at our favorite crepes place.  Then errands, then basketball practice, then…who knows?  A day, a treasure.

…and I’m Worth It.

Thursday, January 28th, 2010

“You’re super-smart and a great writer, so…”
I love conversations that start out like that.  I love it even more when the remainder of the conversation isn’t someone trying to get me to write for free.
Unfortunately, that’s exactly what has happened more than a few times after I hung out my proverbial shingle and offered up [...]

Countdown to Stepmama-hood

Thursday, January 7th, 2010

I have hit the motherhood trifecta. I am a mama by birth, by adoption, and, in exactly 80 days, I will become a stepmama. So, I’m thinking about stepmotherhood a lot these days, and of course, reading books by stepmoms. Books like…

First things first: Let’s clear up any misconceptions you may have [...]

Just one of them days…

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010

Let’s see…
Awakened at 1 AM by a noise, sounds like a Mack truck in my furnace room.  Call TechBoo to troubleshoot.  End up having to cut the power off to the furnace at the circuit breaker.  Send text to plumbing/heating/contracting guy.  Drag portable heater into girls’ bathroom so that they can get dressed in a [...]

“Jesus was Adopted”…But What Does That Have to Do With My Adopted Child?

Friday, December 25th, 2009

I’m late with this, but only recently did I find out that the piece below would not be running as a guest-post at Psychology Today after all.  Some sort of bureaucratic misunderstanding, but I still thank Meredith Resnick for the invitation.
As Christmas approaches, my daughters and I have been revisiting treasured picture books that tell [...]

A Blessed Christmas

Friday, December 25th, 2009

So I went to El Ex’s house early yesterday evening with gifts, pug puppies (food, wee-wee pads, deodorizer, treats), and the makings of my crab dip in tow.  Since we split up nearly 5 years ago, it’s been our custom to spend Christmas Eve and Christmas Day together with our daughters.  Now that we’ve both [...]

‘Tis the season: A Chanukah Party, a Slumber Party, and Psychology Today

Thursday, December 10th, 2009

So tomorrow night, TechBoo and I get to celebrate another first together: Our first Chanukah party.  What to bring? I’m leaning towards a bottle of wine and the jelly doughnuts (which, coincidentally, will come from the new kosher Dunkin’ Donuts that recently opened up nearby).
Saturday night, the celebrating continues with a birthday slumber party for [...]

In the company of women

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

“The reading was sublime. All mama-writers. Lots of blood, sex, body fluids, wine.”
These 3 sentences were about all I could muster on Twitter when I returned home last night from the Unblurred reading.
I was pretty okay when I left the house.  By phone, Techboo had done his loving cheerleader thing.  The first time I read [...]

It’s the most wonderful time of the year…

Monday, November 23rd, 2009

Suffice it to say that for Techboo and me, our dance card is full between now and the new year.
After Thanksgiving (which we are hosting), we’ve already RSVPed for 2 holiday parties and a Chanukah party. I’m doing a Kwanzaa presentation in BabyGirl’s kindergarten class, complete with cornbread baking activity (Jiffy!). Plus, there’s [...]