Archive for the 'Mama-hood' Category

Love triumphs

Sunday, January 8th, 2012

My heart was heavy this morning.  It was definitely shaping up to be a serenity prayer kind of day.  Sometimes, in this space, I’m limited as to what I can share because while my stories are mine to tell, I tread lightly on telling other people’s stories.  I have written (elsewhere) about my bonus children, [...]

My kids are taking over the “Co-Parenting Matters” show!

Tuesday, December 6th, 2011

Our whole family vacation at Cedar Point, 2010 When our oldest daughter Taylor approached El Ex and me with the idea for an all-kids episode of “Co-Parenting Matters”, we thought it was a genius idea (not that we’re biased on anything). She said, “Co-parenting is for the kids, so kids should talk about it, right?” [...]

“What Happened to Her????”

Friday, November 25th, 2011

Last night, after a Thanksgiving brunch that left FedBooHusband and me feeling like we could never eat again, we got a call from some friends, a couple FBH has known for years.  They invited us to come over and “Come hungry!”  The idea of any more food made us weak, but we enjoy hanging out [...]

Thanksgiving Thanks

Tuesday, November 22nd, 2011

Yesterday, BabyGirl shared with me a list of what she calls, “Thanksgiving Thanks”: Family Life Friends School Food Love Books Words Dogs Cats Close [clothes] Shoes Fun Trees Colors Ari* The moon Music My heart? Melted. *I have no idea who Ari is. ETA: Mystery solved. Ari = air  

Motherhood and Grief Research Project

Friday, May 13th, 2011

Anonymous Research Project On Mothers and Grief Motherhood and the death of a loved one are two of the most stressful life experiences women face.  However, parenting mothers who are also grieving the death of a loved one, other than a partner or child, have not received scholarly attention. The goal of this study is [...]

Why Not Adopt a Black Child?: Part 1 in a Series

Friday, April 8th, 2011

Why Not Adopt a Black Child? by Deesha Philyaw “We have many clients seeking to adopt, but none of them are waiting for a Black child.” The woman’s voice on the phone was at once unsettling, moving, and life-changing.  A caseworker at a local Christian adoption agency, she had received a call from a Black [...]

Toot-toot…heyyyy…beep-beep

Tuesday, March 1st, 2011

My apologies for the not entirely appropriate use of Ms. Donna Summer, but I got some things I want to toot my horn about. First up… Tonight at 9 EST, I’ll have the pleasure of joining two awesome gents, WiseMath and Inkognegro, on their show The Black Odd Couple to discuss my webinar, Write Your [...]

Counting Blessings…Long Overdue

Friday, February 25th, 2011

It’s been a minute since I posted a blessings post.  I haven’t stopped counting them, but I don’t always share.  Today, however, I was reminded of how blessed I am, particularly in my co-parenting relationship with El Ex. 1. I’m blessed that he is committed to putting our kids and their needs first, above our [...]

Favorite Things: Kristen Howerton of ShePosts Interviews Me

Tuesday, December 28th, 2010

I was recently interviewed by Kristin Howerton who blogs at Rage Against the MiniVan and is the Managing Editor at ShePosts.com, and it’s my favorite interview yet.  I think it was Kristin’s great questions.  Thanks, Kristin, for bringing the co-parenting conversation to the ShePost readers! You can read it here.

Throwback Post: Co-Parenting Resolutoins

Sunday, December 26th, 2010

“2010 Co-Parenting Resolutions” from my column at The Faster Times: These are still fresh for ’11!