Archive for the 'Friends' Category

To Shar Jackson and all the women scorned

Monday, March 22nd, 2010

TeeLynn: “Writer. Geek. Mental health advocate. Sarcastic smartypants.” My friend and fellow Yalie, TeeLynn, recently blogged about dealing with the pain of a break up–or not.  What gets on my everlasting nerves are those passive-aggressive folks who, instead of dealing with their hurt and disappointment, hand their emotional baggage to their children to lug around.  [...]

A Twitterrific Wedding

Thursday, March 18th, 2010

Okay, so here’s the thing: I don’t like to shop. I enjoy “stuff”, but the actual process of shopping does nothing for me. (And window shopping  makes absolutely no sense to me: If I can’t afford it, the last thing I want to do is stand around looking at it. Can someone who does this [...]

Call for Submissions – Fatherhood Freestyle: The Unheard Voices of Single Black Fathers

Friday, March 12th, 2010

My sister-in-spirit and “Co-Parenting Matters” co-host Talibah Mbonisi of WeParent is accepting submissions for an anthology about single black fatherhood. Please forward, re-post, re-tweet, and, if you are so moved, SUBMIT! __________________________________________________________ Fatherhood Freestyle: The Unheard Voices of Single Black Fathers (working title) Open Call for Submissions Summary: WeParent seeks submissions for an anthology expressing [...]

I get by with a LOT of help from my friends

Monday, March 8th, 2010

I’m fairly certain that I’ve posted a blog entry with this exact title before.  Because it’s true.  I’ve always been blessed with good friends, even though many times in my life I’ve nevertheless felt alone in the world.  After my mom, grandmother, and dad died in 2005, which coincided with the break up of my [...]

Are You Playing to Win…The Wrong Game?

Monday, January 25th, 2010

If you are a regular reader of CoParenting101.org, you know that I *heart* Talibah Mbonisi, founder of WeParent.com (a resource devoted to African-American co-parents) and our co-host on “Co-Parenting Matters.” Below is an awesome cross-post from WeParent penned by Talibah in which she talks co-parenting, Spades, and playing to win. She really breaks it down. [...]

“Agent. Contract. Screaming.”

Tuesday, January 19th, 2010

Since TechBoo started a new job last fall, he doesn’t have the same access to email and phone that he did in his previous job. So when he texted me to see how my meeting went this morning with the agent who is interested in the co-parenting book that El Ex and I are co-authoring, [...]

"Agent. Contract. Screaming."

Tuesday, January 19th, 2010

Since TechBoo started a new job last fall, he doesn’t have the same access to email and phone that he did in his previous job. So when he texted me to see how my meeting went this morning with the agent who is interested in the co-parenting book that El Ex and I are co-authoring, [...]

Just one of them days…

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010

Let’s see… Awakened at 1 AM by a noise, sounds like a Mack truck in my furnace room.  Call TechBoo to troubleshoot.  End up having to cut the power off to the furnace at the circuit breaker.  Send text to plumbing/heating/contracting guy.  Drag portable heater into girls’ bathroom so that they can get dressed in [...]

‘Tis the season: A Chanukah Party, a Slumber Party, and Psychology Today

Thursday, December 10th, 2009

So tomorrow night, TechBoo and I get to celebrate another first together: Our first Chanukah party.  What to bring? I’m leaning towards a bottle of wine and the jelly doughnuts (which, coincidentally, will come from the new kosher Dunkin’ Donuts that recently opened up nearby). Saturday night, the celebrating continues with a birthday slumber party [...]

'Tis the season: A Chanukah Party, a Slumber Party, and Psychology Today

Thursday, December 10th, 2009

So tomorrow night, TechBoo and I get to celebrate another first together: Our first Chanukah party.  What to bring? I’m leaning towards a bottle of wine and the jelly doughnuts (which, coincidentally, will come from the new kosher Dunkin’ Donuts that recently opened up nearby). Saturday night, the celebrating continues with a birthday slumber party [...]