Archive for the 'Divorce' Category

I get by with a LOT of help from my friends

Monday, March 8th, 2010

I’m fairly certain that I’ve posted a blog entry with this exact title before.  Because it’s true.  I’ve always been blessed with good friends, even though many times in my life I’ve nevertheless felt alone in the world.  After my mom, grandmother, and dad died in 2005, which coincided with the break up of my [...]

Tip #792: Making Long-Distance Love Work: It’s Not All Romance & Roses

Sunday, March 7th, 2010

A big part of why my relationship with TechBoo works is that aside from the unavoidable issues related to the distance, we each function the same way we would as if we were living under the same roof full-time.  In other words, we work together on the mundane, the logistical, and the drudgery too.  Effective [...]

(Step)daddy’s home

Friday, March 5th, 2010

I love it when Baby Girl and Mini-Me get to spend time with TechBoo.  I get tired just watching them.  So much energy and joy.
Thanks, as always, to El Ex for making this possible.  Because he acts like a grown up and doesn’t disparage TechBoo (or me, for that matter) to our girls, the girls [...]

It’s the little things

Saturday, February 27th, 2010

This station break from reading/review writing is brought to you by…my future stepdaughter #1.  What shall I call her on this blog??? Hmm.
I got it: Li’l Mama.
So…my day started with a nice little chat with Li’l Mama.  I’m still looking for a poem for her to read during our wedding ceremony. In all our giddiness, [...]

Anita Baker needs a nap

Friday, February 26th, 2010

It’s been one of those weeks…busy, but all good.  So many things on the radar, but I thought I’d post this sad story about TechBoo’s favorite singer, Mary J. Blige Anita Baker.

Memo to Anita: I feel for you, but it’s never a good idea to piss off “exasperate” a judge.
Anita Baker Could Face Jail in [...]

“The Elmira Gulch Chronicles, Or: How Not To Be THAT Ex-Wife”

Thursday, February 11th, 2010

My latest post is up at The Faster Times!

Are You Playing to Win…The Wrong Game?

Monday, January 25th, 2010

If you are a regular reader of CoParenting101.org, you know that I *heart* Talibah Mbonisi, founder of WeParent.com (a resource devoted to African-American co-parents) and our co-host on “Co-Parenting Matters.” Below is an awesome cross-post from WeParent penned by Talibah in which she talks co-parenting, Spades, and playing to win. She really breaks it [...]

Tip #482: Making Long-Distance Love Work – “How Does That Work Exactly?”

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

This morning, on one of my favorite blogs, Daily Plate of Crazy, Big Little Wolf mused about couples who live “together”, separately.  Couples like TechBoo and me. Here’s some of what she had to say:
“I was perusing one of my favorite French sites last night, and came across this article on couples who live [...]

“What to Get the Divorced Co-Parent Who Has Half of Everything”

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Check out my latest at The Faster Times. Here’s an excerpt:
“These days, it seems that the Brits are on the cutting edge of divorce-related commerce. From the folks across the pond who first brought us divorce cakes and divorce gift cards, we now have divorce gift registries. Debenhams, a British department store chain [...]

We want one like Ozzie Davis and Ruby Dee

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

While searching for a photo to accompany the post below (which is a cross-post from CoParenting101.org), I was surprised to discover that Ozzie Davis and Ruby Dee had explored open marriage and wrote about the experience in their joint biography.
A few months ago, I read a guest blog at Stepmother’s Milk by Kela Price, [...]