Archive for January, 2010

…and I’m Worth It.

Thursday, January 28th, 2010

“You’re super-smart and a great writer, so…”
I love conversations that start out like that.  I love it even more when the remainder of the conversation isn’t someone trying to get me to write for free.
Unfortunately, that’s exactly what has happened more than a few times after I hung out my proverbial shingle and offered up [...]

Are You Playing to Win…The Wrong Game?

Monday, January 25th, 2010

If you are a regular reader of CoParenting101.org, you know that I *heart* Talibah Mbonisi, founder of WeParent.com (a resource devoted to African-American co-parents) and our co-host on “Co-Parenting Matters.” Below is an awesome cross-post from WeParent penned by Talibah in which she talks co-parenting, Spades, and playing to win. She really breaks it [...]

Tip #482: Making Long-Distance Love Work – “How Does That Work Exactly?”

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

This morning, on one of my favorite blogs, Daily Plate of Crazy, Big Little Wolf mused about couples who live “together”, separately.  Couples like TechBoo and me. Here’s some of what she had to say:
“I was perusing one of my favorite French sites last night, and came across this article on couples who live [...]

“What to Get the Divorced Co-Parent Who Has Half of Everything”

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Check out my latest at The Faster Times. Here’s an excerpt:
“These days, it seems that the Brits are on the cutting edge of divorce-related commerce. From the folks across the pond who first brought us divorce cakes and divorce gift cards, we now have divorce gift registries. Debenhams, a British department store chain [...]

“Agent. Contract. Screaming.”

Tuesday, January 19th, 2010

Since TechBoo started a new job last fall, he doesn’t have the same access to email and phone that he did in his previous job. So when he texted me to see how my meeting went this morning with the agent who is interested in the co-parenting book that El Ex and I are [...]

“Life’s Most Urgent Question…”

Friday, January 15th, 2010

Life’s most urgent question is: What are you doing for others?
~Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Please give to provide relief and hope to the people of Haiti:

Doctors Without Borders
Oxfam America
Yéle Haiti

Hatred is…

Monday, January 11th, 2010

Hatred is the anger of the weak. – Alphonse Daudet
This is just begging to be a Co-Parenting 101 Quote of the Day.  So very, very true.
There are few people in the world that I hate (or have hated), and in every case, I felt that way because I believed I lacked power to change my [...]

We want one like Ozzie Davis and Ruby Dee

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

While searching for a photo to accompany the post below (which is a cross-post from CoParenting101.org), I was surprised to discover that Ozzie Davis and Ruby Dee had explored open marriage and wrote about the experience in their joint biography.
A few months ago, I read a guest blog at Stepmother’s Milk by Kela Price, [...]

Together

Saturday, January 9th, 2010

Bliss.
After last night, adding this to the wedding playlist.

Countdown to Stepmama-hood

Thursday, January 7th, 2010

I have hit the motherhood trifecta. I am a mama by birth, by adoption, and, in exactly 80 days, I will become a stepmama. So, I’m thinking about stepmotherhood a lot these days, and of course, reading books by stepmoms. Books like…

First things first: Let’s clear up any misconceptions you may have [...]